Are you happy?Most people respond “Under the circumstances, yes.”The real circumstance that most of us live under though, is that we are being had.Our growing up, from infancy to adult hood, is really the story of our liberation from that which ‘had’ us, to us now ‘having’ it.Babies for...
Parents don’t know how to parent. This is the first problem that all leaders will have: they are where they are currently in spite of their childhood and rarely because of it.It doesn’t matter whether you are a CEO, big boss, manager, housewife or professional. Your skills may be new but the...
The most absurd thing I have discovered is that an overwhelming number of people hate themselves.They actually make the choices and do the things that cause them harm.I’ve identified the following as characteristics of those who love versus those who...
Love is a very necessary Management tool.It is often easier for us to build a relationship with a stranger than it is for us to do so with a brother or a sister, simply because the ‘new person in our life’ is usually more...
A definition of success I’d like to present is this: Success is using reason and faith to overcome what is natural.The primary difference between man and all other animal has been mans ability to deal with, and overcome what is “Natural”.While our need to breathe, drink and eat amongst other...
The answers we provide ourselves are almost always right. This causes big problems. If we were wrong we would be willing to change, but who in his right mind would change what is right?Also, if our answers are externalized what can we do about it? If the...
(7 lessons we’d love to teach our spouses, team members and children)From the moment we are conceived we teach.We teach the world around us through our smiles and our tears, our fussing and our gurgling, a billion different things.We were not conscious of what we taught our mothers as they...
Two things govern all mankind from the poorest to the richest: Faith & Education.We simply cannot escape it.What we believe and what we learn dictates our reality. We are subject to Universal Law to pre-configured formulas. Each of us has the freedom, to simply thrash about in the water or...
How we speak, respond, or how we represent ourselves receives perhaps the most recurring criticism.Oddly enough people who need us at work, or closest to us at home, are the ones who usually make this demand repeatedly.Strangers bear up.What perhaps is actually being said though, without our...